Preparing Ourselves for the High Holy Days

Rabbi Barry Diamond


Think of the last time you attended a play or concert.  You probably saw an advertisement and perhaps even looked up the play or the musicians playing that event.  You may have eaten a special meal beforehand, worn special clothes, and talked about the show with some friends. Each of these small acts help prepare us for our experience; these rituals shape our mindset.  It is certainly possible to enjoy the play or concert without these preparations, but it is much more likely with them.

During the upcoming High Holy Days, services will be conducted virtually.  Therefore, many of our usual rituals will not be available to us.  Large family dinners will be less likely and dressing in nice clothing to attend services will not be necessary.  While this may seem like a loss, it is actually an opportunity to seek out new rituals that prepare us for the High Holy Days.  Sometimes, new rituals may better prepare us than the ones we’ve come to expect.

I would like to invite you to participate in a new ritual that has very old roots.  The name of the month that precedes Rosh Hashanah is called Elul (Ay-LOOL).  During Elul, we are called upon to hear the sound of the shofar each day and read Psalms and reflective readings that encourage us to examine our lives more fully.  Beginning on Friday, August 21, the first day of Elul, we would like to email you one reflective reading for each day leading up to Rosh Hashanah.  These brief readings can water the arid soil of our soul.  To receive the daily reflections, please sign up using the link below.

I look forward to finding new, meaningful ways to welcome the new year with you! Sign Up to Receive the Daily Elul Wisdoms

TAEngage Book Group: White Fragility

Over five sessions, each group will discuss the book White Fragility

Based upon decades of anti-racism scholarship and activism, the authors explain the challenges that whites may have in discussing and addressing racism in the United States.

Our primary goal is to recognize how the system of racism shapes our lives, how we uphold that system, and how we might interrupt it.


All groups are schedule for five sessions.
Choose one of the four groups below or
click here to start a group of your own.

*The groups are filling fast!
If you would like to join a group but it is filled, please send and email to TAEngage@AdatElohim.comWe will conact you when another group opens.

Group 1
Starting on July 14, 2020.
Tuesdays, 6:30 p.m. – 8:00 p.m.
Read More about Group 1

Group 2
Starting on July 15, 2020.
Wednesdays, 7:00 p.m. – 8:30 p.m.
Read More about Group 2

Group 3
Starting on July 20, 2020.
Mondays, 2:00 p.m. – 3:30 p.m.
Read More about Group 3

Group 4
Starting on July 23, 2020.
Thursdays, 3:00 p.m. – 4:30 p.m.
Read More about Group 4

Be on the lookout for additional opportunities to explore and address the issue of racism in our society. 

Homeward LA 2020

Last year, TAE was fortunate to produce and host a production of Homeward LA – Stories about Homelessness. Although we cannot produce a live production again this year, we invite you to view HomewardLive, a powerful online event about the lives of those experiencing homelessness.

Every Thursday from July 16th to August 13th at 6pm PST on Facebook Live, an actor will perform a true story from a person who has experienced homelessness, followed by a candid, intimate conversation between the actor and the real individual behind the story.

Special guests include:

  • Judy Reyes (Claws, Devious Maids, Scrubs) – Thurs 7/16
  • Bradley Whitford (The West Wing, Get Out) – Thurs 7/23
  • Daniel Franzese (Mean Girls, I Spit on Your Grave) – Thurs 7/30
  • James Lesure (Las Vegas, Divorce, Good Girls), with co-host Chris Gardner (businessman, motivational speaker, best selling author whose life is portrayed in the motion picture The Pursuit of Happyness, starring Will Smith) – Thurs 8/13

Although we cannot do it in person again this year, we are pleased that they are presenting HomewardLive.

Every Thursday from July 16 to August 13 at 6pm PST on Facebook Live (www.facebook.com/homewardla), an actor will perform a true story from a person who has experienced homelessness, followed by a candid, intimate conversation between the actor and the real individual behind the story. To get more information and to RSVP, please click here.

Ride for the Living- Birkenau July 2 at 2pm

Ride for the Living – Virtual Tour of Auschwitz – Birkenau July 2 at 2pm.

All over the world, Auschwitz-Birkenau has become a symbol of terror, genocide, and the Holocaust. Auschwitz-Birkenau was the principal and most notorious of the six concentration and extermination camps established by Nazi Germany to implement its Final Solution policy that planned the mass murder of the Jewish people in Europe. Join esteemed Auschwitz tour guide and JCC Krakow Director of Programming, Agi Kocur-Smoleń , as she takes us on a virtual tour of Birkenau using modern technology and digital storytelling on July 2 at 2pm.

If you missed the first part of the lecture, you can watch it here!

Ride For The Living Facebook Page

 

Brother of the Year

ANNOUNCING THE BERNIE ENTIN BROTHER OF THE YEAR

Under normal circumstances the TAE Brotherhood would announce their pick for the coming year’s Brother of the Year at the Brotherhood’s annual Erev Shabbat service, which was to place in mid-March.  The selectee does not know in advance that he’s been selected, and the announcement is therefore a surprise to him—at least that is the hope.

But this year’s circumstances are not normal, so we are making the announcement via this e-mail to all of our Temple Adat Elohim membership.  Hopefully, when our selectee reads this e-mail, it will be a surprise to him.

First, however, we wish to explain why we call our Brother of the Year the Bernie Entin Brother of the Year.  Bernie Entin, of blessed memory, was the first man to be selected as our Brother of the Year.  His devotion to TAE, expressed in so many ways during his years of membership at TAE, was legendary.  He was a tireless volunteer at our synagogue, both within the Brotherhood and the larger TAE community.  He was even selected as TAE’s Volunteer of the Year on multiple occasions because, were you to visit the TAE campus, you would likely find Bernie on the office’s second floor doing numerous volunteer activities:  folding bulletins, stuffing envelopes, or whatever else needed doing.  Just before Bernie’s death due to cancer, the Brotherhood Board voted to rename TAE’s Brother of the Year award as the Bernie Entin Brother of the Year, and Bernie was made aware of this.  We hope, if Bernie is looking down on us, that he’d be pleased with our subsequent selections.

This year’s selectee has also been a tireless worker for TAE.  He’s served on the TAE Board of Directors as well as the Brotherhood’s Board of Directors, including serving as TAE’s President.  He’s volunteered at many TAE events, including our annual Purim Carnivals.  Indeed, he personifies the spirit and tradition of volunteerism that Bernie Entin himself personified.

Our selectee was born near the Great Lakes and, by his wife’s admission, was a mediocre student in high school.  This was probably due to his love of bowling because, also by his wife’s admission, he spent most of his spare time at the bowling alley.

Be that as it may, he demonstrated his keen intelligence and “aced” the college entrance exam, gaining admission the Wayne State University.  Staying true to his love for bowling, he spent the first year at Wayne State bowling for dollars.

After a year at Wayne State, our selectee’s family moved to Los Angeles, and he enrolled in Los Angeles City College.  While there he met the woman who would become the love of his life, and their first date was at … you guessed it … a bowling alley.  You’d think that our selectee would go easy on his date, but such was not to be.  She survived the humiliation of defeat, and they shared their first “shy kiss” at the end of the date.  In his wife’s words, the rest is history.

By now we’ve given enough information that our selectee probably knows who he is, but we’ll continue this story.  They married in 1963 while he was attending Los Angeles State University (now Cal State LA) and his wife was pursuing an education degree at UCLA.  While his wife taught school, our selectee pursued a law degree at UCLA.

After our selectee graduated and passed the bar, he worked while his beautiful wife became a homemaker and raised their two red-headed children.  Our selectee became active in B’nai B’rith, serving as its youngest president.  He and his family also joined Temple Judea where he served on its board.

After moving to the Conejo Valley they joined Temple Adat Elohim, and both became very active in the TAE community.  Our selectee served as TAE President, and he’s also held many other positions.  He’s been the go-to person whenever there was a tough issue to address, and he’s a fountain of information on TAE’s history.  He also barbeques the best hamburgers and hot dogs for TAE’s Purim Carnival.

His beautiful wife Judy has supplied most of the information presented here, but we would like to add one more volunteer activity in which our selectee is involved, a full-time job in itself.  He is into his second year serving on the Ventura County’s Civil Grand Jury, spending untold hours conducting investigations for the betterment of the Ventura County community.

We are both honored and happy to announce the TAE Brotherhood’s selection of Larry Levine as our Bernie Entin Brother of the Year.

(2020)