What is the connection between “compassion” and “womb”? One suggestion is that having compassion for others is similar to being protective – as a womb is protective of the fetus. Another idea is that compassion is an emotion rather than a thought process and we feel compassion /Rachamim for others as if it is coming from our kishkes (our gut).
Compassion/ Rachamimcan be easy for a friend. Our challenge, however, is to develop compassion for even those we do not respect or trust. Compassion does not mean providing an excuse for others, but it does require that we come to a place of understanding, if not acceptance, of the actions and words of others. Compassion/Rachamim has the power to heal relationships and build new bridges. It can open doors that we once considered sealed. It can give us a sense of peace and can nurture our very being.
This month, we are focusing on rachamim . . . may we each begin to find compassion for all others.
L’Shalom,
Rabbi Ted Riter - Senior Rabbi