Modesty, "they" say, is a virtue. In Hebrew, the word for "Modesty" is "Tzniut". Modesty/ "Tzniut" is a source of contention these days in Israel. Some Orthodox religious authorities are demanding segregated bussing to ensure "Tzniut" and attacks on "immodestly dressed" women are not uncommon. These extremes notwithstanding, there is still a value to the practice of "Tzniut".
"Tzniut" is traditionally understood to refer to both modesty of clothing and practice. In our modern world, a better description might be formed in a question: "Am I wearing clothing and accessories, purchasing items, or doing certain things to get people to look at me?" Judaism does not call for us to hide what we have or who we are. However, our traditions does point out that if we are constantly craving attention, our energy is focused in the wrong direction.
The month of May at TAE is devoted to Modesty / Tzniut. Please join me this month in making a commitment to refocus our attention on the needs of others.
L' Shalom,
Rabbi Ted Riter - Senior Rabbi